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ABITS
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NTERDEPENDENCE
With the paradigm of the Emotional Bank Account in mind, we’re ready to
move into the habits of Public Victory, of success in working with other people.
As we do, we can see how these habits work together to create effective
interdependence. We can also see how powerfully scripted we are in other
patterns of thought and behavior.
In addition, we can see on an even deeper level that effective interdependence
can only be achieved by truly independent people. It is impossible to achieve
Public Victory with popular “Win/Win negotiation” techniques or “reflective
listening” techniques or “creative problem-solving” techniques that focus on
personality and truncate the vital character base.
Let’s now focus on each of the Public Victory habits in depth.
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