The Secret Summary and Review by Rhonda Byrne

The Secret Key Idea #4: A wealthy, healthy, and loving relationship requires visualization and a positive mindset.

Through an effort to ensure that positive thoughts are your most dominant ones, you might discover feelings of anxiety about negative thoughts that might threaten to show their faces. But you needn’t fret. Worrying about negative thoughts will only make them worse. Instead, letting that negativity pass without effort and focusing on the good instead is the most influential thing you can do to conquer these fears. For instance, if your desire is to be wealthy, make that the focus of your thoughts. Grab a pen and write, “I am grateful to earn one hundred thousand dollars a year.” So that you’re able to truly believe this statement and receive this positive thought, it’s important to visualize the end result. Visualization is key to helping you achieve anything, no matter what you ask for. So if you want to get wealthy, you could try printing out your bank statement, covering your current balance with white out and then writing down the amount you really want to have. Using visual aids will assist you in truly believing that you’ll be able to achieve what you want, and through doing this, the universe will make it possible for you to do so. It will redirect your thinking to the right frequency, as will repeating the phrase “I can afford it!” for the next 30 days when coming across things you hope to buy. Simply following this procedure will help with positive thinking in the same way that the belief that you deserve good things will. This is especially true for relationships. Remember to treat yourself and others as you would like to be treated by others. Through learning to love and respect yourself, you’ll soon discover that the universe will send you someone else to love. Unlike some more concrete wishes, love only actually exists in the emotional state, which means you’ll really only be able to conjure up this particular emotion within yourself. However, the more you think loving thoughts and send out positive vibes, the more likely the same good feelings will come back to you.