Why Men Love Bitches

The Bitch Has a Strong Will and Faith in
Herself
When I set out to talk to men about this book, I wasn’t sure what
to expect. I thought that some might react to the title, 
Why Men
Love Bitches,
and say, “Men don’t love bitches!” What happened
was the exact opposite. They absolutely confirmed—over and over
—that a strong woman is very much a turn-on. Sometimes they
described why they love bitches. Other times they asked, “ Yeah,
why do we love bitches?” But over 90 percent of the time, they
didn’t deny the fact that they’re turned on by strong women.
Putting yourself first is not something men resent. On the
contrary, a man actually respects it. He feels as though there is far
less weight on his shoulders when you are independent, and he
doesn’t have to make you happy all the time. He’ll regard you as a
secure woman, instead of as a ditsy or flighty woman who doesn’t
know what she wants.
Putting yourself first means going back and relearning how to
count. In math, the number one comes before the number two (1 . .
. 2 . . . again . . . 1 . . . 2 . . .). You are number one and— are you
sitting down?— 
he is number two!
Until now, you’ve made the
mistake of starting to count at “number two.” Number one wasn’t
even counted. You skipped over 
numero uno
because you didn’t
seem to feel you mattered.
Life is an extension of grade school. A third grader approaches

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another kid and bullies him. He slaps the kid, steals his lunch
money, and runs. The child who won’t be bullied is the child who
slaps the bully and takes his lunch money back. (With an extra little
slap, just for thinking he could have gotten away with it.)
The 
new and improved bitch
understands this principle in adult
day-to-day life. People will do the same thing on a daily basis.
They’ll try to slap you and run, whether it’s a coworker, a family
member, a friend, or yes . . . even a lover. The only difference is
none of these people will try to steal your lunch money. Instead,
consciously or not, they’ll steal your self-confidence.
When it comes to believing in yourself, put your eye on the mark
and don’t blink. If you have a goal, a dream, or an aspiration . . .
believe in yourself while you are 
on the way
to your destination,
and you will have already arrived.
Throughout life, people will try to shake your faith 
in yourself.
When this happens, remind yourself that the only way they can
succeed is if you allow it. When you walk down the street of life,
always hold your head high and keep walking. Don’t 
ever
let
anyone shake your faith in yourself, because that’s really 
all
that
you have.
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