This is a very important issue to talk about. I had
a life-changing experience
recently when a very intimate friend of mine died. I understood the
preciousness of life and overall the value of relationships among the people.
Chan Mow and I are close friends since our early childhood and were studying
in the same educational institution in Vietnam. Our bonding was stronger and
we were like brothers. Besides, our families were also
in good terms with each
other. But everything became gloomy with the death of Mow. He,
unfortunately, died from a road accident and it was a great shock for all of us,
especially for me. I was present at the accident spot.
Generally, Mow and I used to go to college by bicycle every day. We also had
some other friends who had their bicycle and drove to the college. Sometimes,
we used to go distant places
for travel and refreshment, especially out of the
city. We did the trips in the holidays and usually started in the early morning
while returned in the evening. On the day of the accident, we were on such a
trip. We planned to return early as one of our college
friends had invited us to
take part in a tea party in the evening. But everything turned pale with the
accident.
Mow’s bicycle had some troubles that he did not notice before the journey.
We wanted to go the outskirts of the city and thus had to cross the intercity
highway. The highway was always busy with speedy vehicles. We started the
journey as a group but since
there was a rush of vehicles, we got split. The
breaking mechanism of Mow’s bicycle was not working properly and he was
unable to stop the bicycle immediately. As a result, he became a victim of the
accident and a speedy car ran over him. We hurried
to the spot and took him
to the nearest hospital. But he left the earth before reaching the hospital. I felt
a sense of shock that cannot be expressed in words. He was the closest friend
of mine and his death traumatised me for next few days.
The incident changed my life in some specific aspects. Before losing my friend,
I did not have the sense of deep friendship. But Mow’s
death showed me how
friendships are and how to deal with them. In fact, in our childhood, both of us
had done many quarrels and got engaged in fights over petty matters and
often got injured badly. But those events did not
break the friendship rather
made the bond stronger. We grew up together. I regret for the lost time. It will
never be back again. Moreover, I would be unable to create such a friendship
with someone else. It is impossible to make
such a deep bonding that we
fostered since childhood. The death Mow taught me the value of life, it
pointed out the meaning of relationship and importance of time as well.
The idea presented in this cue card topic would enable you to describe the
following topics as well:
x
Describe a positive experience you have had.
x
Describe a memorable event in your life.
x
Describe an event that has affected you.
x
Describe a valuable lesson you have learned in your life.
x
Describe a lesson that has changed you for good.
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