used to do nothing for living rather relying on Augustine. They had quarrels
several times over the issue. She took measures
to make her husband active
but everything was in vain. The man did not do anything and by the same time,
Augustine got pregnant. Since she had no other ways left, she started a small
job amid her pregnancy. Despite such pathetic situation, her husband had no
willingness to start working for a living. So, she got divorced with her husband.
Augustine, now, is a school teacher. She teaches in a local secondary school.
Besides, she also plays the role
of mentor in different courses, especially she
teaches French and German languages in a language club in Paris. She earns
sufficiently and spends almost all the bucks for her baby boy. She takes classes
when her boy is in the school but when she takes classes in the evening, for
the language courses, she keeps her boy under my guardianship. The
little boy
plays with my daughter. Both of them have developed a good friendship. The
two are in the same class and sometimes I help them to perform their home
works and other assignments. When Augustine returns from her work, I talk to
her sometimes about her day. She is like an intimate friend of mine, especially
my husband is sympathetic to her for her bad luck.
Though I suggested her to
get married again, she declined to get engaged again. In fact, she is enjoying
this part of her life.
Though reluctant to get married again, she takes care of her son perfectly.
Once I asked her about the care of the boy and she explained every issue to
me. Even she is ready to die for her boy. She lives in a moderate apartment
here and she could easily leave the residence to save money. But she is on the
view that her son has been born there and she
plans to stay at the same
building as long as she can. Besides, the expenses for the school are large as
the school is one of the most reputed elementary school in the city. She is
meeting all the needs of the boy. She is working twice in a day for her boy.
Firstly she teaches in a school in the morning hours and in the evening she
attends the language club for mentoring. So, she earns a handsome amount
but she spends all of her earnings for the boy. She also mentioned that she is
saving a share from her entire earning for the future of her boy. In fact, she is
performing all the tasks as much possible for her.
Being a single parent is a highly troublesome task. If
both the husband and wife
live under a single shade, they could share all the necessary activities. Usually,
men are engaged in wage-earning while the women are the homemakers. But
when a part of the bonding is missing, I mean if the husband or wife gets split,
life becomes difficult. As human beings, we cannot live alone. Hence the family
arrived as an institution to live together. All the
family members should work
together to make the family run. But when there is a single parent, s/he is to
do everything which seems impossible for a single individual to perform. Now
Augustine is to look after her boy, earn her livelihood and maintain the society
all by herself and often she is unable to balance among the other things. It
becomes difficult for her to maintain everything smoothly and if she had her
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