Why Men Love Bitches

Be an independent thinker at all times,
and ignore anyone who attempts to define

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and ignore anyone who attempts to define
you in a limiting way.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #99
Truly powerful people don’t explain why
they want respect. They simply don’t engage
someone who doesn’t give it to them.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #100
The most attractive quality of all is dignity.

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INDEX
A
abrasiveness, 225–26
accessibility, 5, 31–35, 206–9
affection
giving, 115
showing in public, 66, 67
aging, xv, 225
appearance, xv
assertiveness, 47–51
attitude
about self, 12–14
independent, 221–26
attractiveness, 13–14
availability, 5, 31–35, 206–7, 208–9
B
bathrooms, sharing with men, 85

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behavior
danger-seeking, by men, 218–19
mothering, 37–41, 126–31
overly accommodating, 217–18
pulling back, 10–11
bitch
characteristics of, 20–23
communication style of, 93, 94–96, 215–16
described, xii-xiv, 19–20, 214–16
independent attitude of, 221–26
je ne sais quoi
of, 18–20
reasons men prefer, 166–69
strong will of, 226–27
blame, shifting, 133–34
booty call, 33–34
boyfriends, talking about past, 72, 95–96
C
chase, thrill of, 26–37
chick flicks, 150–51

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chores, getting help with, 141–44
clothing, provocative, 15–17
communication
bitch style of, 93, 94–96, 215–16
male view of female, 150–51
talking too much, 93–94, 152–56
through actions, 92–93
vagueness in, 93, 95–96
compliments, 22, 66–67
confidence, 12–14, 17, 73, 221–26, 227
confrontations, avoiding public, 86–87
conversations
See also
communication
mystery in, 95–96
revealing self in, 97–98
short, 93–95
cooking, 6–8, 201–5
criticism, 83
D
dates

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ending, 36
last minute, 31–35, 122, 205–7
paying on, 82–83, 185–86, 187–88
showing appreciation on, 185–86, 188, 190–91
dating, thrill of chase
during, 26–37
dignity 20
E
e-mails, 114
edginess, 18–20
ego, male, 76–89
making friends with, 80–82
making him feel manly and, 77, 78
maneuvering around the, 83–87
praise and, 79, 80–82
public confrontations and, 86–87
emotional dependence, 49–50
emotions. 
See
feelings
F

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fear
of losing man, 19–20, 118
male, of loss of freedom, 42–47
feelings
avoiding sappy, 111–15
male aversion to talking about, 150–51
not showing your, 144–48
reasons men hide their, 156–60
talking too much about, 152–56
financial independence, 174–85, 193
male feelings about, 175–84
respect and, 180–85
self-esteem and, 177–78
flirting, 66
freedom, male fear of losing, 42–47
friends
dumping, for man, 102
treating men like, 136–37