I didn’t work efficiently because of distractions.
These explanations are all temporary and specific;
their “fixability” motivates you to start clearing them away as problems.
Using this test, Marty confirmed that, compared to optimists, pessimists are more likely to suffer
from depression and anxiety. What’s more, optimists fare better in domains
not directly related to
mental health. For instance, optimistic undergraduates tend to earn higher grades and are less likely to
drop out of school. Optimistic young adults stay healthier throughout middle age and, ultimately, live
longer than pessimists. Optimists are more satisfied with their marriages. A one-year field study of
MetLife insurance agents found that optimists are twice as likely to stay in their jobs, and that they
sell about 25 percent more insurance than their pessimistic colleagues.
Likewise, studies of
salespeople in telecommunications,
real estate, office products, car sales, banking, and other
industries have shown that optimists outsell pessimists by 20 to 40 percent.
In
one study, elite swimmers, many of whom were training for the U.S. Olympic trials, took
Marty’s optimism test. Next, coaches asked each swimmer to swim in his or her best event and then
deliberately told each swimmer they’d swum just a little
slower
than was actually the case. Given the
opportunity to repeat their event, optimists did at least as well as in their first attempt, but pessimists
performed substantially worse.
How do grit paragons think about setbacks? Overwhelmingly, I’ve found that they explain events
optimistically. Journalist Hester Lacey finds the same striking pattern
in her interviews with
remarkably creative people. “What has been your greatest disappointment?” she asks each of them.
Whether they’re artists or entrepreneurs or community activists, their response is nearly identical.
“Well, I don’t really think in terms of disappointment. I tend to think that everything that happens is
something I can learn from. I tend to think, ‘Well okay, that didn’t go so well, but I guess I will just
carry on.’ ”
Around the time Marty Seligman took his two-year hiatus from laboratory research, his new mentor
Aaron Beck was questioning his own training in Freudian psychoanalysis. Like most psychiatrists at
the time, Beck had been taught that all forms of mental illness were rooted in unconscious childhood
conflicts.
Beck disagreed. He had the audacity to suggest that a psychiatrist could actually talk directly to
patients about what was bothering them, and that the patients’ thoughts—their self-talk—could be the
target of therapy. The foundational insight of Beck’s new approach was that the
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