Elif Shafak is one of Turkey’s most acclaimed and outspoken novelists

Ella 
NORTHAMPTON, JUNE 24, 2008
“Baby, there’s a new Thai place in town,” David said. “They say it’s good. Why don’t we go 
there tonight? Just the two of us.” 
The last thing Ella wanted to do on this Tuesday was go out for dinner with her husband. But 
David was so insistent that she couldn’t say no. 
The Silver Moon was a small restaurant with stylish lamps, leather booths, black napkins, and so 
many mirrors hung low on every wall that the customers felt as if they were dining with their 
own reflections. It didn’t take Ella long to feel out of place there. But it wasn’t the restaurant that 
had made her feel this way. It was her husband. She had glimpsed in David’s eyes an unusual 
glitter. Something wasn’t normal. He looked pensive—worried, even. What disturbed her most 
was that he had stuttered a few times. Ella knew that for his childhood speech impediment to 
surface, David had to be very distressed. 
A young waitress dressed in a traditional outfit came to take their orders. David asked for chili 
basil scallops, and Ella decided on the vegetables and tofu in coconut sauce, staying true to her 
fortieth-birthday decision to refrain from eating meat. They also ordered wine. 
They talked about the sophisticated decor for a few minutes, discussing the effect of black 
napkins versus white napkins. Then there was silence. Twenty years of marriage, twenty years of 
sleeping in the same bed, sharing the same shower, eating the same food, raising three kids … 
and what it all added up to was silence. Or so Ella thought. 
“I see you’ve been reading Rumi,” David remarked. 
Ella nodded, though with some surprise. She didn’t know what surprised her more: to hear that 
David knew about Rumi or that he cared about what she read. 
“I started reading his poetry to help me to write my report on Sweet Blasphemy, but then I 
became interested in it, and now I’m reading it for myself,” Ella said by way of explanation. 
David grew distracted by a wine stain on the tablecloth, then sighed with a valedictory 
expression on his face. “Ella, I know what’s going on,” he said. “I know everything.” 
“What are you talking about?” Ella asked, although she wasn’t sure she wanted to hear the 
answer. 
“About … about your affair …” David stammered. “I’m aware of it.” 

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Ella looked at her husband, flabbergasted. In the glow of the candle that the waitress had just lit 
for them, David’s face showed pure despair. 
“My affair?!” Ella blurted out, quicker and louder than she intended. She instantly noticed the 
couple at the next table turning in their direction. Embarrassed, she dropped her voice to a 
whisper and repeated, “What affair?” 
“I’m not stupid,” David said. “I checked your e-mail account and read your messages with that 
man.” 
“You did what?” Ella exclaimed. 
Ignoring the question, his face contorted with the weight of what he was about to announce, 
David said, “I don’t blame you, Ella. I deserve it. I neglected you, and you looked for 
compassion elsewhere.” 
Ella lowered her gaze to her glass. The wine had a charming color—a deep, dark ruby. For a 
second she thought she glimpsed specks of iridescent sparkle on its surface, like a trail of lights 
guiding her. And perhaps there was a trail. It all felt surreal. 
Now David paused, deciding how best, or whether, to reveal what he had in mind. “I’m ready to 
forgive you and leave this behind,” he finally remarked. 
There were many things Ella wanted to say at that moment, poignant and mocking, tense and 
dramatic, but she chose the easiest one. With gleaming eyes, she asked, “What about your 
affairs? Are you also going to leave them behind?” 
The waitress arrived then with their orders. Ella and David sat back and watched her leave the 
plates on the table and refill the glasses with exaggerated politeness. When she finally left, David 
flicked his eyes up toward Ella and asked, “So is this what this was about? Was it for revenge?” 
“No,” Ella said, shaking her head in disappointment. “This is not about revenge. It never was.” 
“Then what is it about?” 
Ella clasped her hands, feeling as if everything and everyone in the restaurant—the customers, 
the waiters, the cooks, and even the tropical fish in the fish tank—had stopped to hear what she 
was going to say. 
“It is about love,” she said at last. “I love Aziz.” 
Ella expected her husband to roll with laughter. But when she finally found the courage to look 
him in the eye, there was only horror on his face, quickly replaced by the expression of someone 
who was trying to solve a problem with minimal damage. Suddenly she had a moment of 
knowing. “Love” was a serious word, loaded and quite unusual, for her—a woman who had said 
so many negative things about love in the past. 

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“We have three kids,” David said, his voice trailing off. 
“Yes, and I love them very much,” Ella said with a slump in her shoulders. “But I also love 
Aziz—” 
“Stop using that word,” David interjected. He took a big gulp from his glass before he spoke 
again. “I made major mistakes, but I never stopped loving you, Ella. And I have never loved 
anyone else. We can both learn from our mistakes. For my part I can promise you that the same 
thing won’t happen again. You don’t need to go out and look for love anymore.” 
“I didn’t go out and seek love,” Ella muttered, more to herself than to him. “Rumi says we don’t 
need to hunt for love outside ourselves. All we need to do is to eliminate the barriers inside that 
keep us away from love.” 
“Oh, my God! What’s come over you? This isn’t you! Stop being so romantic, will you? Come 
back to your old self,” David snapped, then added, “Please!” 
Ella furrowed her brow and inspected her nails as if there were something about them troubling 
her. In truth, she’d remembered another moment in time when she herself had said virtually the 
same words to her daughter. She felt as if a circle had been completed. Nodding her head slowly, 
she put her napkin aside. 
“Can we please go now?” she said. “I’m not hungry.” 
That night they slept in separate beds. And early in the morning, the first thing Ella did was write 
a letter to Aziz.