Queueing
Probably because people had to queue for their rations both during and after the second world war, the British have been a nation of queuers. The rules are fairly simple, establish where the queue begins and ends, wait your turn, don't try and steal somebody's place and move forward as those in front of you move forward. Under no circumstances try to bluff your way to the head of the queue. When you are being served, don't take too long to order what you want. If you are entering a cinema, plane or similar, take your seat as quickly as possible.
It is seen as very bad form to engage in a mobile phone conversation once you reach the head of a supermarket queue or in a shop of a comparable nature.
Queueing can become quite an occasion to some. It is seen as a badge of honour to queue all night for Wimbledon tickets or to be one of the first to buy the latest iPhone.
Being Polite
British people are always saying “Sorry”. It is like an involuntary action. Even if someone bumps into someone from the UK, it will be the UK person who will say “Sorry”.
Someone from the British Isles would never say, “Do you have the right time?” Rather,
“I'm terribly sorry to bother you but do you possibly have the right time?”
There are a few reasons for this.
1/ “...Sorry to bother you..” Accepts responsibility for a disturbance in somebody's routine.
2/“Do you have the right time?” Is a little bit abrupt.
3/ “...possibly have...”, takes in the possibility you might not have a watch and saves embarrassment.
4/ British people do not like to give offence, either deliberate or accidental, so they try to make their dealings with people they don't know as gentle as possible.
It may seem a very convoluted way to communicate with others but it does show respect and starts interactions on an even keel.
Punctuality
If you have an appointment with someone, formal or informal, it is seen as disrespectful if you turn up late. If you know you are not going to be able to meet someone, let them know but with plenty of advance notice. Similarly, if you think you might be a little bit late for your meeting, phone to let your friend, or associate, know.
Pubs
At the center of British culture is the pub (public house). It is a place to meet in a usually warm and pleasant surroundings. There will be a selection of alcoholic beverages on sale from cask conditioned ale to liquor of many descriptions.
Some people may play traditional pub games in a special room. Darts and pool are very popular with many pub-goers involved in competitive leagues. For those looking for intellectual stimulation, pub quizzes are well patronised.
But for many patrons, the relaxation of meeting friends and enjoying each other's company is the main attraction of a pub.
The Last Word
British people are fairly liberal in their views and the way they act. They love helping strangers, especially from other countries. But they do like their traditions. They are not obsessional about them but, as with nations worldwide, they like their customs respected. The Queen, in most corners of popular debate, is not an easy target for criticism. Moaning and making a fuss about things is not seen as good form. But most of all, politeness and regard for others goes a long way.
Of course, there are people who travel far to experience British culture first hand. The royal family, in particular, evokes much attention and affection. Visitors are surprised at how approachable British police are. But, although a little bit conservative, it is the people of the UK, with their positive nature and friendly outlook who tourists regularly remark on.
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