Copyright 2001, Colin C. Tipping

“If my parents abandon me, then I must be a very
unlovable person. No one will ever stay with me for
more than 2 years because, if my mother abandons
me after that time, everyone will do exactly that. They
won’t want me after that. They will realize that I am a
bad person and will leave. That’s how life is.”
Jesse had been living out of this particular story for all
her 52 years. Yet it was founded on a complete misin-
terpretation of the situation. Once she saw that, she
was able to let it go and become free from the need to
create abandonment every two years from that point
on.
Even though she had spiritual awareness, she had con-
sistently failed to realize that in providing instances of
abandonment every two years, Spirit was in fact giving
her opportunities to wake up and heal a toxic story
which was a limitation on her life and a wound to her
soul. Doing some forgiveness worksheets on the per-
son who had last fired her helped her clear all the other
times she had been ‘abandoned’ over her 52 years and
neutralized her original abandonment story.
The Forgiveness Centrifuge
Using this tool might have saved both Jill, Jesse and
Glenda many years of painful struggle. The Forgive-
ness Centrifuge helps us separate 
what actually hap-
pened
in any given situation from our 
interpretation
of
what happened. If you own the type of juicer where you
put carrots and other things in the top and the juice is
separated from the fiber by the centrifugal force of the
spinning grater, you know what is meant by the term
centrifuge. A centrifuge also is used to separate plasma
from blood, cream from milk, and so on. A washing
machine spinning out the excess water from clothes
works in the same manner as well.
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