All praise is due only to Allaah. We laud Him and beseech His

Save yourself from…..Why?....How?
There is one other factor which is of utmost importance, and 
that is where in some homes the relationship between the 
spouses may be strained or where the wife is occupied the 
entire day in her household chores and then the husband comes 
and 
shoots 
off 
with 
the 
questions 
of 
Why?...What?...When?...How?...Where?...
The husband has spent his day in the office or shop and the 
poor wife has been at home worked to the bone, cooking, 
cleaning, tending to the children before they go to school, when 
they return, sending them off to Madrasah, doing the washing, 
ironing, etc., etc. And then if the in-laws are also living 
together with the couple then she may have had some run-in 
with the mother-in-law, etc. All these activities tire her out and 
the last thing she would welcome is a barrage of questions from 
the husband…
Why is this not done? When will I get my meal?
Etc. 

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In order for the home to function smoothly and for there to be 
peace and solace in the home, the husband should behave 
himself in a way which befits his authority and not ‘add fuel to 
the fire’. 
Together with closing the shop for the day, you should lock 
up the shop’s problems also
Some men have the habit of leaving all their office, shop, 
school, Madrasah, etc. work behind in the workplace when they 
leave for the day and return home, whereas there are others 
who will carry the work or the worry thereof back with them 
when they return home. They will enter the house with a 
worried and stressed look. The poor wife who has been 
working hard the entire day, making sure there is food on the 
table for the husband, that the house is clean that the children 
are fed and happy, would not like to see the husband enter the 
house with a long face. Everyone likes to see their husband or 
father come home with a smile on his face. It is for that reason 
we advise readers that when they close the business for the day, 
they should leave all their work worries and tasks at the 
workplace and return home free.