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At the same time, the role of these three factors is equally important in the
development of a person to the level of a truly perfect person.
For some reason, the fact that none of these factors are at the level of
rhythm and are not followed on a different scale in an individual’s activities
leads to negative perceptions. There is a retreat in the spiritual image of the
person - his upbringing begins to deteriorate.
It should be noted that in order to find answers to the above questions and
overcome the existing problems, further acceleration and development of
cooperation of citizens' self-government bodies with educational institutions
and families is a guarantee of perfect preparation of a harmoniously developed
generation. Preparing young people for marriage "there is a need to carry out
processes related to the natural
growth of the population, the birth of a new
generation, that is, the development of families" [3.51 p].
In addition to the family, the mahalla and the school have certain
responsibilities in preparing young people for marriage, and it is expedient to
unite them in this way. Those who prepare young people for the future happy
family, that is, in their own families - parents, relatives and kins, neighbors in
neighborhoods, other people from the neighborhoods,
the general public, in
schools
- teachers, class teachers,mentors, coaches, youth non-governmental
organizations are responsible for carrying out the work.
A family is a set of people living together, consisting of a couple, their
children and their closest relatives, an apartment. Marriage requires a young
man and a young woman to marry, and the process takes place with their
expressions and consent.
Marriage is, first and foremost, a legally formalized family union with the
mutual consent of the couple,
the marriage, the marriage, the marriage, the
reunion of the couple. According to Uzbek values, marriage is, firstly, a Shari'a
ceremony and a contract taught by mosque imams, and secondly, a legally
registered family union of a couple is considered a couple, husband and wife.
Marriage is formed on the one hand - the verbal proposal of the man, on the
other - the acceptance of the proposal by the woman. Otherwise, the family is
considered illegitimate and unmarried. The
families, which were not wedded are
considered unmarried families whose spouses are not legally married. Such
families are often hopeless and fragmented. Children born in such families face
various problems in their lives. Not all societies encourage unmarried and
illegitimate families.
Ancient religions raised marriage to the level of a vital necessity. They
attributed this to the alienation of man from sexual immorality and the
abandonment of future generations.
By the 21st century, the human problem has become a family problem. As
a result of the changes taking place in families, it has become clear that they
have a positive or negative impact on the development of society. That is why
today the issues of the family, such as women's issues, the preparation of young
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people for marriage, the equality of women and men, have become important
issues of public policy.
Decree of the President of the Republic of Uzbekistan dated February 2,
2018 "On measures to radically improve the activities in the field of support of
women and strengthening the institution of the family" is aimed at
strengthening family ties, raising the status of women
in the family and social
life, protecting their freedoms, rights and interests.
As stated in the Resolution of the Cabinet of Ministers of the Republic of
Uzbekistan "On additional measures to further improve the activities of citizens
'self-government bodies", the Deputy Chairman of the Citizens' Assembly on
youth issues exercises the following powers:
-
wide promotion of healthy lifestyles and family sanctity among young people,
implementation of effective measures to prevent early marriage and divorce of
young families;
-
regular study of lifestyle and behavior of incapacitated, troubled families,
young people brought up in them, parents who went abroad for work or other
reasons, convicts in prison, children working in families affected by harmful
inofficial trends, as well as children of all categories of persons on the
preventive account of law enforcement agencies;
-
implementation of targeted measures to prepare young people for family life,
to form a modern exemplary family, to strengthen its
spiritual and moral
environment and traditional family values;
-
prevention of early marriages, and a system of targeted work with troubled
and problematic families ”[4.16 p].
In our country, systematic measures are being taken to develop the
relationship of marriage and family in accordance with our national values and
the requirements of today's legislation. Explanatory work, interesting meetings
and events organized by state and public organizations in such areas as "School
of Young Family Builders", "Family University", "Healthy Family - Strong Family"
are yielding good results. After all, one of the reasons a family is strong is that it
is created on the basis of law and love.
Conclusions and suggestions:
It is advisable to prepare young people for marriage and making a family,
starting from infancy, childhood, taking into account their young psychology.
It is necessary to inculcate in their minds from this age that virginity
(preservation) is the basis of a happy family, a national value. It has always given
good results that those who prepare young people for the future happy family,
that is, in their own families - parents, relatives and kins, neighbors in
neighborhoods, other people from the neighborhoods, the general public, in
schools - teachers, class teachers, mentors, coaches, youth non-governmental
organizations are responsible for carrying out the work.
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