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Healthy relationship among employees also goes a long way in inculcating a sense of pride and loyalty for the organization. People tend to enjoy their work and office. They seldom speak ill of their bosses and concentrate only in productive work. People are concerned only with quality work rather than wasting their time and energy in backstabbing and criticizing others. Criticism and jealousy are certain negative traits which not only lead to unhealthy ambience at the workplace but also decrease the output of individuals. Do not always think of harming others. As an employee, learn to work in teams, brainstorm ideas and also help each other during crisis. If you perform well, there are better chances of promotion and growth which would eventually not only benefit you but also your organization. Have friends around at the workplace. Trust me, you will not feel like taking many leaves unless and until there is an emergency. Healthy relationship at work also increases your interest in work and organization.
Family is an essential part of the society and it plays the most important role in everybody’s life. It means that the most important people in our lives are our family members. Family is represented by a close unit of parents and children living together. I believe that everyone wants to have a happy family and good relations with all its members. In my opinion, a happy family should have mutual interests, hopes and dreams to share. Other important issues are love, trust and respect. No family can exist without love.
Happiness is also impossible without love. When people love each other, they can overcome all the obstacles. Unfortunately, modern couples often build their relations on some other values, such as money, social position, etc. They think that happiness will come itself and nobody has to make an effort. They are mistaken, as good family relations are impossible without mutual understanding and love. Children in the family also play an important role. To keep up ideal relations with parents they should be kind to them, trusting and understanding. They should share everyday joys and sorrows with their parents.
Whenever, there is a difficult situation, parents are the first people to help them and find the way out. My family is not big. I live with my parents and my little sister. I think that we have ideal relations, as we never quarrel with each other. Instead, we always treat each other with respect and love. If there is a problem, we talk about it and try to find the best possible solution.
From the past to present, human being lives in the group. It is because each person has limited abilities to live by him or herself. The limitation makes everyone has to dependent the other in order to live in the society. Therefore, the inability of human being constructs a relationship between everyone. However, there are so many kinds of relationship are being developed such as friendship, social relationship. As our topic above, we will discuss the importance of family relationship to a person because. Family relationship would affect the growth and the future of a person. It is a good experience that helps the youth to develop a human relationship and skills for joining the society. Therefore, in the following paragraph, we are going to discuss how the family relationship affects a person and we will use some reference from the novel, The Wars, by Timothy Findley. .
In the family, father always plays an important role in it. The reason that he is so important is because he has to carry most of the burdens in the family. Hence, his children always have a strong and big man image on their father, especially a boy. This can demonstrates a good relationship between them. For example, Robert and his Father, Tom Ross, have a strong father- son relationship throughout the novel. Robert loved and respect his father very much his father got him through it' (Timothy Findley The Wars 16). Besides, Robert's father also takes care and supports his son. One example of Tom takes care of his son is when Robert tries to finish the running race; no one fully supported him except his father. Although Robert faints on the lap, his father is there and supports him. (Timothy Findley The Wars 48). This good relationship would make the father gives a positives effect to his son. The effects may be in physical form or mental form. In the novel, Tom always talks some stories about voyages, ships and the skill of riding a horse. (Timothy Findley The Wars 49). This is the physical effects of their relationship because Tom provides a lot of information and skills to Robert. They help Robert to develop his abilities that those skills are very necessary to Robert during time of War. The mental effect of this relationship is Robert grows from boy to man. It is because he has a shadow of his father while he receives all the knowledge from his father. This helps Robert to be a man and more mature. On the other side, Tom Ross also affected by his son in this relationship. As the son respects and loves the father very much, Tom has to do his best and does not let his son disappointed. Therefore, the effect of the family relationship can change a person's thinking and develop his abilities before joining into the society. However, the good relationship in the family does not represent it brings a positive effects only, it may bring a serious disaster to the family.
The other relationship develops in the family is between the children. Their relationship trend to very close is because they have the similar age and thinking. Therefore, they can easily accept each other rather than adult. For example, Robert and Rowena have a very close relationship in the novel. The thing was no one since Rowena had made Robert feels he wanted to be with them all the time' (Timothy Findley The Wars 171). Besides, Robert feels very comfortable when he stays with Rowena. When she smiled, he thought she was his mother' (Timothy Findley The Wars 9). However, the close relationship does not mean it has good effects on the family. It is because the feature of the children is nave, they face everything are very sensitive, especially death. In the novel, the death of Rowena makes Robert has changed 180 degrees and gone into insanity. The effect is he feels her death was his fault because he is Rowena's guardian. Stuart was meant to be watching her and so it was Stuart's fault but no- it was not Stuart's fault.
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